What To Do When Your Child is Being Bullied
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Sound calm to a child in distress even when you're panicking inside, using a few words you've practised ahead of time.
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A child who is furious or frightened needs the adult in front of them to seem steady. That's hard to pull off when your own heart is racing and you can't think what to say.
Start with how you speak: slow, low, low. Slow your pace, drop your tone and bring your volume down, and you'll sound calmer than you feel (often you'll start to feel it too). Then pick two or three stock phrases, such as "I'm ready to listen when you're ready to talk", and practise them until they come out without thinking. There's a handout of suggested phrases to start from.
Some children don't respond well to talk at all. For them, you'll work out a private signal together, or use emoji cards so they can show you how they feel.
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Included with parent membership
From £4 a month
Included with parent membership
From £4 a month
Included with parent membership
From £4 a month
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